50 STEPS TOWARDS A GREAT MARRIAGE
(by Steve Stephens)
Lets start practicing these......
1. Start each day with a kiss.
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times.
3. Date once a week.
4. Accept differences.
5. Be polite.
6. Be gentle.
7. Give gifts.
8. Smile often.
9. Touch.
10. Talk about dreams.
11. Select a song that can be "our song".
12. Give back rubs.
13. Laugh together.
14. Send a card for no reason.
15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks.
16. Listen.
17. Encourage.
18. Do it his or her way.
19. Know his or her needs.
20. Fix the other person's breakfast.
21. Compliment twice a day.
22. Call during the day.
23. Slow down.
24. Hold hands.
25. Cuddle.
26. Ask for each other's opinion.
27. Show respect.
28. Welcome the other person home.
29. Look your best.
30. Wink at each other.
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way.
32. Apologize.
33. Forgive.
34. Set up a romantic getaway.
35. Ask, "What can I do to make you happier?".
36. Be positive.
37. Be kind.
38. Be vulnerable.
39. Respond quickly to the other person's request.
40. Talk about your love.
41. Reminisce about your favorite times together.
42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy.
43. Send flowers every Valentine's day and anniversary.
44. Admit when wrong.
45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires.
46. Pray for each other daily.
47. Watch sunsets together.
48. Say "I love you" frequently.
49. End the day with a hug.
50. Seek outside help when needed.
PASS THIS ON TO YOUR MARRIED - AND UNMARRIED - FRIENDS & FAMILY,
SO THAT THEY MAY HAVE LOVE, GIVE LOVE & SHARE LOVE.
thanks banget Dokter, lgs forward ke suami deh ::)))) met thn baru ya........
ReplyDeletesy buat link ya doc, jd biar ingat terus
ReplyDeletenice article dok...
ReplyDeletetp menurut gw sih yg penting lagi adalah:
1. saling mencintai
2. Terus dan terus belajar untuk mencintai dan tetap mencintai pasangan kita (maklum manusia cenderung merasa bosan tp cinta tdk akan membosankan).
3. Berjiwa besar untuk selalu menerima apapun kekurangan pasangan kita yang menyebalkan sebagai sesuatu yang unik.
4. Jangan pernah membandingkan apa yang sudah kita lakukan buat pasangan kita dan apa yg belum dilakukan olh pasangan untuk kita.
5. Selalu berusaha mencari jalan tengah disetiap perbedaan pendapat.
6. Jangan pernah merasa lebih pinter, lebih dewasa, lebih bijak dan lebih lebih lainnya dari pasangan kita.
7. Setiap ada permasalahan dan perselisihan segera netralisir emosi dan katakan dalam hati kita bahwa kita tidak mau menyakiti hati pasangan kita...
8. Dan yang terpenting point no 46 itu dok... Pray each other daily
weleh banyak juga...
ga bermaksud menyaingi lhoo... :D
Boleh juga nih saran P.Dokter dipraktekin......makasih P.Dokter Sindy
ReplyDeletewah pak dokter, apakah resep2 ini yang mmebuat perkawinan bapak dan ibu awet hingga kini?? hmmm patut ditiru....selamat jalan2 ya pak :)
ReplyDeletewaahh.. bagus jugak, kalo nyang baca sudah nikah.. buat nyang single gimana ya pak dokter?
ReplyDeletethank you pak atas sharingnya. mudah-mudahan bisa ikutan mem-praktek-kan ya..
ReplyDeleteDok Sidhiarta, how many of the 50 can you fulfill ? I think I have only done 30% of it but hope I can do it all, even sometimes its hard because of our ego.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing it with us.
GBU
pak Gun,
ReplyDeletesegitu mah masih mending he3
malu ah ngasih lihat rapor, merah melulu
mesti sering2 nyontek ngintip ke daftar itu
Om, TFS aku paste ya....GBU
ReplyDeleteTFS... aku paste jg y...
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